hehe..
take it easy guys..
it juz my point of view to some guys yang sgt2 menjengkelkan!
a man who t8s girls for granted!
tp i bkn nk ckp psl sesape..
tp pasal buku..
n review bout it..
well..
i've seen diz book at a bookstore..
n yea..
its cool!!
n the facts....owh man! mmg btul!
but sumhow i xleh nk beli diz book..
by the time i told my dad i want this book..
he likes ' u read this kinda book? '
oh cmmon dad..
n yes..i knw d answer..
a big 'NO'
hmm..
bitches?
the term "bitch" sarcastically, as is not referring to a woman who is mean, but a woman who doesn't give up for her life for a man.
yes, doesn't give up..!
buat ape je for a man..
bile da suke sum1 tu..
but a bitch stands up for herself.
not say 'yes' all the time for a man..
"The rules are simple that most of us know, but sometimes forget when we get caught up in a new love interest. They range from the basic dating concept of "don't sit by phone waiting for him to call" to the more advanced relationship concept of "don't give up your social life to be with him 24/7"
"Basically what I took out of it is this: anything you chase in life runs away. You can keep a man interested if he feels like he never completely has you. It doesn't mean playing a game of hard to get all the time, but more so that you shouldn't make a man the center of your universe. Don't give up plans or doing things you like to be with him. Keep your life exactly as it was before, only add him to it. Don't stop going to the gym or start seeing your friends less, because then the guy will lose respect for you thinking your giving up things to be with him. See him when it's convenient for you. Don't be needy and clingy because then you become more a burden than a reward. Be confident in yourself and your good qualities and know that any guy would be lucky to have you and should treat you that way. If someone doesn't treat you well, then find someone who does. It's as simple as that."
so..jgnla wat ape je utk guys..
girls..we hv our own life..what we deserve..
dun wait 24/7 for him..
dun be too nice..
or else..
u'll burst in tears..
bcoz of what?
he turns to a 'bitch'
ok..here's some review of this book..
Sherry Argov's Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
-Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
-Why do men take nice girls for granted?
-Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of much-needed advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry in the relationship-you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.
Chapter list:
Chapter One: From Doormat to Dreamgirl
Act like a Prize and You Turn Him into a Believer
Chapter Two: Why Men Prefer Bitches
Cracking the Code: What Every Nice Girl Needs to Know
Chapter Three: The Candy Store
How to Make the Most of Your Feminine and Sexual Powers
Chapter Four: Dumb Like a Fox
How To Convince Him He's In Control While You Run the Show
Chapter Five: Jumping Through Hoops Like a Circus Poodle
When Women Give Themselves Up and Become Needy
Chapter Six: Nagging No More
What to Do When He Takes You For Granted and Nagging Hasn't Worked
Chapter Seven: The Other Team's Secret Play Book
Things You Suspected But Never Heard Him Say
Chapter Eight: Keeping Your Pink Slip
The Reasons That Holding Your Own Financially Gives You Power
Chapter Nine: How to Renew the Mental Challenge
How to Regain That "Spark"
Chapter Ten: 90% Nice Girl and 10% Bitch
huhu..
A woman finds a man worth loving, showers everything and anything on them and *surprise!* they're abandoned. Why does this happen? Because women expect men to give back what they're giving them and it just doesn't work that way.
The book explains that men want an independent woman. They don't want a mother, a babysitter or a slave -- they lose interest in them way too fast and the mystery is gone. Sounds easy enough to understand but if you read the examples and follow a few tips you'll be very surprised with the results.
For example, the old telephone bit. DON'T wait by the telephone for the guy you're seeing. Go out, have a life outside of him and call back when it fits YOUR schedule, not his. Don't rearrange your plans around him and most of all don't leave all decisions up to him. I've had friends I'm with that when the phone rings, they ignore all their guests to go suck up to the guy they're after on the phone. Wrong. You make time for your man when you have the time -- not stopping your life.
The two things I was surprised to discover is: 1.) Women have been taught in the past that appearance is everything they need to find a man -- and nothing else matters. No wonder women have been treated like doormats! If personality and ambition are ignored there's nothing left but appearance and 2.) Women need to be taught to have a life outside of their boyfriends/mates/husbands. Women have been taught by society that they need a man to complete their lives SO MUCH that they end up desperate and it shows to the man they're dating. Plus, it's the reason you feel that emptiness in a relationship -- you've lived so much for him that you forgot about yourself. It's really sad when you realize how passive society has made women unconsciously or consciously and you need to take that back.
Have a guy tell you that he wants to see you and other people? Don't get on the floor and beg for him -- tell him: "Don't let the door hit you on the ***. I had one guy do that to me. We went out and he told me that he was going to see this girl he knew at work. So, when we were driving back to my place I said: "I understand about your needs to see other people," and he nodded and got this smile on his face. Then I said: "So since you're going to see someone else on Saturday I just wanted you to know that I have a date, too." That smile melted off his face so fast I could have died laughing. What ended up happening? He was so distracted by the fact that I was going out on a date that he didn't enjoy his at all. The VERY next morning he called immediately and asked if I wanted to go out. I hemmed and hawed and said: "Well, I'm pretty tired from last night, so no, but I can go out Monday evening." I was showered with attention Monday. Trust me - it works.
Now, in defense of some of the male postings here (which make me laugh of course) NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS. But unfortunately, there are guys out there who are. Think of this book as a great guideline to weed those out. If guys like this are playing games, the best thing to do is to play YOUR WAY. You may not end up with the right guy if you have to but your self esteem won't be shot in the end when it's over and that little player will have learned something. Real men DON'T play these games, but do love independence in women.
So get this book if you've had your heart broken too many times.
Remember, not all guys are like this but you can figure out which ones are (and... have a little fun with them in the meantime *devil grin here*)
A man wants a challenge, not a "nice" girl. A "nice" girl seems clingy. Sherry teaches us in very simple terms how to become the "bitch" that every man desires.
hehehe..
saje2 je post bout this..
interesting isnt it?
=)
source : http://hubpages.com/hub/Why-Men-Love-Bitches
